mr_economy

Let me first add that even if you don't have an orgasm, that does not negate the fact that sex will feel good. Sexual play does not always have to end in an orgasm, nor should that be the only goal in doing it.

It is true that many women cannot achieve orgasm from intercourse in certain positions - or sometimes even at all - but this is not true for all people. Everyone's experience will be different, and there is no way to tell how your body will react; but there are some things you can do.

Try a position that will allow more direct clitoral stimulation as compared to the missionary position. I'm not sure how much detail I am allowed to go into, so I would suggest doing a Google search on the subject for more information on positions.

Also, foreplay foreplay foreplay! The hotter you are to begin, the greater the chance or having an orgasm - maybe even let your partner take you to orgasm before intercourse so he feels less pressured and can let himself go more easily. In addition, manual stimulation of the clitoris during intercourse is usually very possible, depending on the position, and that would surely help.

I should warn you ahead of time: don't expect your first time to be the most pleasurable, magnificent experience of your life. If you go into it with those expectations, you are asking to be let down. Take it slow, go with the flow, and let the good times roll!