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Old 12-14-2004, 12:43 AM   #1
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Ever since I started having sex, which was only two years ago I have a hard time focusing on only that event. What is wrong with me!!!! My mind tends to wander off...Its not that I am not physically attracted to my boyfriend because I am and I love him so much which is why I don't understand why this happens to me ! I feel this is affecting my chance of having an orgasm...which I have never had. I was thinking of learnign to meditate...Does anybody have any suggestions...does this happen to anybody else?! Please Help!!

 
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Re: wandering mind

I don't think that its a positive sign. Sex is such a strong emotion that once you are into the phase its hardly possible to think of anything else. It has definitely a lot to do with the person with whom are you having sex. May be that you are not attracted enough to him but even if he is not that much attractive to you still you are bound to enjoy the physical stimulation. May be your hormones are on the lower side. The sex drive a little low or may be its nothing but just that you think about thinking. Thats it. You are the best judge of the situation.

 
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Re: wandering mind

Maybe you have ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder)? I'm reading a book right now called Women with Attention Deficit Disorder, and that is one of the many things mentioned in there. On the list of questions in the self assessment is this one: "Have you had difficulties with sexual relationships because you can't concentrate enough?" The book says about how women who have ADD have a tendency to be distracted during sex (and of course, they are distracted at other times as well); their minds wander and they think of lots of other things, not being able to focus on the sex that they are having at the moment. I'm not saying that you absolutely have ADD, but being that I do have it and recognize what you mentioned as being one of the possible signs of having it, I thought it was worth mentioning it to you. Perhaps you might want to look into this possibility?

 
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Re: wandering mind

Thanks for the advice....my sex drive is on the low and i think its because of my birth control which i am getting switch....could maybe that be the cause of it ? It doesn't happen all the time and sometime when we do start going Its different. I don't think i have Add though....because i looked it up and i don't have all those sypmtoms..who knows...thanks !

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Re: wandering mind

Birth Control pills can effect your sex drive. I have had the same problem. well kind of where I had no desire for sex. I went ro my doctor and he told me birth control can effect that for some. In my case there was more to it, but that was one of the problems . I would discuss it with your doctor and see if he can suggest anything.

 
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