question about oral sex - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

redsoxgirl2418 · 12-29-2004, 12:01 AM

ok so it's like this...when you're giving a guy oral, and he climaxes in your mouth, you would pretty much definitely know that it's happening right? LIke, would it be safe to say that the chances of him climaxing and the woman not really being able to tell are pretty slim to none? Because...I've never really done much sexually with a guy before til the current guy I'm with...so I'm giving him oral which again, never done before...and it seemed fine, he was enjoying it and telling me he's getting close, etc. And I'm cool with swallowing so I kept going and...just didn't taste or feel anything...and after awhile he kinda pulled me up...still hard and everything....and that was that...So I'm kinda confused...like, could he actually have come but I did'nt notice? Do some guys come very little so that you might not be able to tell? I was sorta embarrassed by the whole thing even though he was cool about it...anybody have a take on this?

Rms11 · 12-29-2004, 10:22 AM

I think you would know. It does have a particular taste and you would feel it coming into your mouth. Most guys after they ejaculate are no longer hard. However some guys can have an orgasm without ejaculation. It is best to be open with him and ask him.

SunKissed · 12-29-2004, 10:57 AM

yeah, like rms says...you should definitely know when it is happening. believe me, lol. you will taste it, and it kind of feels warm..sorry to be too graphic, but you feel it coming out and going into your mouth. =)
it would be a good idea to ask your man whats up.

Rainbowbrite77 · 12-29-2004, 11:39 AM

Some men do climax without ejaculating... And like the 2 above said.. you can feel it going into your mouth.. it's warm and kind of bitter... You'd definately feel it. Did he tell you he went? Because I've been in situations where the guy got bored of it... like the 2 above said, ask him about it!

redsoxgirl2418 · 12-29-2004, 03:59 PM

i don't know, i'm sure we'll talk about it...i just feel self conscious because it was the first time I'd ever done it and I guess i wasn't really expecting um, not being able to tell if he came or not to be an issue lol...especially since I was so comfortable with him and with doing it even though I hadn't before...like I said, I certainly did'nt feel anything...there was a slight taste but to me was never more than from the pre-come that was there when i started....sorry I know I'm beign graphic...but anyway...sucks to be my age and new to all this stuff

thanks for the replies.