Are you still on pain medication ?I just had shoulder surgery done 2 weeks ago and i'm still in a whole load of pain even with the peracet i'm on ...very little sexual desire going on her right now (i'd rather sleep ) and that's very unuall for me!But this is my second shoulder surgery and i know from expeince when the pain eases my sexual urges will bounce right back to normal.......basically it's hard to be sexy when your in pain !!Good luck!!