Women moments after the "Deed"...? - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

da_genie · 03-03-2005, 01:43 PM

Wow....can't believe the responses to my last Q...thanks everyone!! Now on this flip side, like i said, i'm new @ this....so what about the women....haha do i just chill while he's grabbin a shower n grab one of my own...or just hop in w/him

...i know the couple times i have had sex so far, he was all about the shower right after....i mean, i didn't know if i should be offended by that, or how i should react, what I should be doing myself in the mean time, or whatever..if i don't take a shower will he think i'm dirty?!..hopefuly i'll get some good responses on this one, too.

GLSheridan · 03-03-2005, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by da_genie

Wow....can't believe the responses to my last Q...thanks everyone!! Now on this flip side, like i said, i'm new @ this....so what about the women....haha do i just chill while he's grabbin a shower n grab one of my own...or just hop in w/him

...i know the couple times i have had sex so far, he was all about the shower right after....i mean, i didn't know if i should be offended by that, or how i should react, what I should be doing myself in the mean time, or whatever..if i don't take a shower will he think i'm dirty?!..hopefuly i'll get some good responses on this one, too.

Many people shower after sex. It doesn't mean you're dirty.

tictac · 03-03-2005, 05:15 PM

I don't think it's necessary to take a shower, although sometimes it's a fun thing to do together after sex. But it's probably a good idea to at least clean yourself down there. There will always be times when you're just too wiped out to care though. I doubt he cares. Don't stress about it.

Marblehead · 03-03-2005, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by da_genie

Wow....can't believe the responses to my last Q...thanks everyone!! Now on this flip side, like i said, i'm new @ this....so what about the women....haha do i just chill while he's grabbin a shower n grab one of my own...or just hop in w/him

...i know the couple times i have had sex so far, he was all about the shower right after....i mean, i didn't know if i should be offended by that, or how i should react, what I should be doing myself in the mean time, or whatever..if i don't take a shower will he think i'm dirty?!..hopefuly i'll get some good responses on this one, too.

Don't be offended if he takes a shower afterwards. My boyfriend will always take a shower after sex. Though sometimes he falls asleep first before he gets to the shower, and thats usually if I am in there taking a shower first. Sex can get messy so it's kind of necessary. When he's in the shower, I'm just laying in bed relaxing or sometimes sex makes me really hungry LOL so I might end up in the kitchen.

wrin · 03-03-2005, 06:44 PM

Showers together are a fun afterglow activity, if you've got the facilities with room for you both.