vaginal vs. clitoral stimulation - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

redsoxgirl2418 · 06-04-2005, 03:06 PM

is it common for women to prefer vaginal stimulation to clitoral stimulation? I mean, don't get me wrong, it feels great when my bf touches my clit, and when we first started being sexually active, I could orgasm from it. But recently, although it feels fantastic, it doesn't send me over the edge. But when we're having intercourse or he puts his fingers inside me, I have no problem. I just think it seems strange, because I know most women are more likely to orgasm from stimulation of the clitoris. I was just curious as to whether others have this same problem (well, not really a problem, but you know what i mean

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Divation · 06-04-2005, 06:09 PM

I would say your just really lucky. I would love to orgasm from sex, instead of clitoral stimulation. It would make it much easier on my boyfriend as well.

chevyman · 06-05-2005, 10:43 AM

hi,
I don't think all women can have a vaginal orgasam??, most have a hard time just getting a clitorial O.....(during intercourse)

My g/f prefers a vaginal O... more intense... deeper intense feeling I guess.
(not saying a clitorial) is not intense, but seems to me she really gets into a vaginal Orgsam...
giving a female a vagina O is a lot left up to both partners...female needs to be totally relaxed and the male just needs to know how to use his penis to get her there of couse forplay works wonders the feel the touch the soft words a female loves to hear gives her confindence/self assurance!!
but the actual duration is what I mean..I can't explain (on this board) how to or what I do to get my partner to her vaginal Orgsam. ..for those females that never had a vaginal o....your missing out...its like an outta body experince.
ANYWAY THATS WHAT MY G/F TELLS ME.

I don't know forsure? but there maybe a certain time of month to try for a vaginal orgsam....thats just my opinion.

sorry for all the bad spelling.