Re: Is losing virginity painful?
It can be painful, but not horrible. First off, I am assuming he knows you are a virgin, if not you way want to tell him just so he will know to be careful with you. Then make sure you are completely relaxed - focus on enjoying the experience as opposed to worrying about 1000 different things (pain, whether you are going to be any good, body image, nerves, etc). Then foreplay is key. You need to be really turned on and ready. Have plenty of lube ready just in case. Maybe have a bath together, or whatever you need to relax and focus on just the two of you. The more you are relaxed and the more you are stimulated beforehand, the less pain you will experience. Also, if you are comfortable with it, get a smallish ***** and use it during masturbation. But as long as you are relaxed, stimulated, and lubricated and he is caring and gentle, you will be just fine!