I have to reply, share this.
I love to masturbate , (who better else knows what makes us "go"- than ourselves
(i'm not married) ) I don't use any toys anymore and I personaly enjoy it more.
I find I need to be completely relaxed, 100% in la-la land with, the man i'm seeing, for penetration to not hurt. 100% in "la-la land" if you know what I mean
So, when I masturbate, I don't use any toys/no fingers inside whatsover, and I love it. When i'm in la-la with my man, penetration doesn't hurt,,,,I tell him when it does, he respects me.
I hope this helps.
one more thing, if it hurts, don't do it and/or say something ok.
I may be wrong, but, if you think it'll hurt, then it will. If you are 100% comfortable with this gentleman, relax, voice out if it hurts. You know the saying about men and their two heads? I'm sure you know what I mean. (Their "down there" head speaks louder and has control sometimes.) Well, I think we are the same, as women, to a certain extent. Your mind will somewhat control, to a certain extent, how he feels in you.
If YOU DON"T fell 100% comfortable-don't do it!
COndom, Condom, Condom.
The G spot is not suppose to hurt to my knowledge.
sorry. Your body just might not want "it" yet. I'm 30 years old, only about 1.5yrs ago that my own body finaly said, yep i'm ready for a penis. Everyone is different, listen and respect your mind and body.
I hope this helps you.
Take 'r eas