I am 36 years old and have been in a loveless marriage for the past 13 years. I could count on both hands the number of time we had sex with no sex in the last 8 years of the marriage. We are now seperated and getting a divorce and I have meet a really nice guy who knows my situatation. We have had sex 2 times now and I can not have an orgasam! The sex is very good and he is very attentive to me. I think he wants me to have an orgasam as bad as I do. I get close and then it goes away. Is this psycological because of my past or has my body changed so much without me knowing it that I need medical help?
You've only had sex with him twice and you're worried because you didn't orgasm? I think all you need is time to get to know this guy better, so try to relax. You're perfectly normal.