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Saybrook 03-01-2006 03:40 AM

orgasm ... never had one
 
Okay, I've read the recent posts on orgasms, but I'm 36 and NEVER had one at all. What's wrong with me? My husband knows that it's never happened. What does anyone suggesst that I do.

LadyShriver1 03-01-2006 12:20 PM

Re: orgasm ... never had one
 
Hmmm...I assume you've also never been able to have one while masturbating. Have you tried a vibrator? Or you can position yourself underneath your bathtub tap...Either way, you'll probably have to figure out what helps you before you can have one with your husband. If you find sex enjoyable, but just can't seem to orgasm, it may be that you just haven't found the right combination. If you really feel nothing, you may want to talk to your gyno about it. Sometimes a little pill is all it takes ;-)...

Saybrook 03-02-2006 03:49 AM

Re: orgasm ... never had one
 
Thanks. I think I'll give your ideas a try and see what happens, otheriwse I'll make an appointment w/ the gyno. I didn't realize they can give a woman something to help her out. That's interesting.

XHoneyBeeX 03-02-2006 04:30 AM

Re: orgasm ... never had one
 
Hi i didnt have one until 4 yrs ago, OMG what was I missng out on!

I found that getting myself relaxed, and help from a virbrator helped(alone). I had to find out what I liked rather than just please the male!! So now things are much better! Good luck x

Jessica_ 03-02-2006 10:54 AM

I just started having them from intercourse about 3 years ago. It was a very surprising thing.. I actually didn't know it was happening until right before. Don't push it or get frustrated and don't worry about "taking to long". You may also experience feeling close a few times before it happens, that's ok also, you are just learning what you need to do.

If I were you I would enjoy it also.. and don't think about other stuff, concentrate on what you are feeling and nothing else. It helps! Oh, stay patient.

Good luck!!!


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