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Old 03-10-2006, 03:34 PM   #1
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pain with deep penetration

When my boyfriend and I have "rough sex" it hurts! I don't know if its because I'm not turned on enough or what - it just really hurts when he hits my cervix! And sometimes i will have a sore, cramping feeling after sex like that. Any advise?

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Old 03-10-2006, 03:44 PM   #2
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Re: pain with deep penetration

Ease off with "rough sex" for a while, you have to tell him that when he goes too deep, he is hurting you. I'm sure both of you will get just as much enjoyment by not penetrating so deep.

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Old 03-10-2006, 04:39 PM   #3
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Re: pain with deep penetration

It can hurt if they are hitting your cervix.............especially doggie style. I think it is a "good" hurt though.

Old 03-11-2006, 10:02 AM   #4
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Re: pain with deep penetration

if it continues you might want tp get checked by a Dr. I had that problem and I found out I had cysts tat were making it painful when anything (doctor included) pushed on my cervix... after getting those removed I feel great. ... but it can also hurt your cervix at certain points in your cycle. Mine does if i'm close to getting my period or immediately following a period. Hope that helps.

Old 03-13-2006, 07:24 AM   #5
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Re: pain with deep penetration

Is it possible you have a retroverted uterus? With this, the penis hits the uterus and pushes on it, which can be very painful. Worth a look into.

Old 03-13-2006, 01:00 PM   #6
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Re: pain with deep penetration

Originally Posted by daisy-duke77
It can hurt if they are hitting your cervix.............especially doggie style. I think it is a "good" hurt though.
This is usually when it hurts for me too. But like daisy said, it soon becomes a good hurt. If it's not a constant pain for you, just let your bf know that you're a little uncomfortable so he knows how it feels for you.

Old 03-13-2006, 04:27 PM   #7
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Re: pain with deep penetration

it's completely natural for it to hurt when he hits your cervix. it's the rare woman that it doesn't hurt to have her cervix pounded. if you don't like it, then you should try and find a way to have "rough sex," without him hitting your cervix, try different postions. no one should feel uncomfortable during sex, if you do, then you need to be doing something different. if it's a "good" uncomfortable/pain, well then, more power to you.

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