another question... I'm 36 years old and assume that I am in my prime... I think about and want sex constantly... I've even gone home to masturbate during my lunch hour just to find some relief. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining, but I am worried that this will end just as suddenly as it started. It's like I became arroused about 10 months ago and it just has never turned off. Does anyone know is there a time span or age bracket that this is common during... I don't want this to ever go away. I feel young and vibrant again and love it.
I don't have an answer for you, but I have the same question. I could have written your post myself.
I, too, hope it doesn't go away like it came on. I'm 34 and stopped BC pills several months ago after 20 years of hormones and zero libido. Within about 10 days of stopping the pill, all I could think of was sex. Geez, I'm finding myself looking at stranger's butts while pumping gas, lol. I'm also wondering if our spare bedroom could be remodeled in to a sexual chamber of sorts My hubby is concerned we wouldn't be able to sell the house, tho, later without some serious explaining to any prospective buyers.
Remember when we were young and all the teenaged boys wanted to do was get in our pants? I think I can finally relate
Yes, it's incredible to feel this way
P.S. I see my gynocologist in a couple weeks. I'll ask him about this -- although, I wouldn't be surprised if it's the same ole stock answer they seem to give about everything, "It varies with every woman."
P.S.2. Wow...just realized you're in Florida. Me, too! Maybe it's the sunshine or that last round of 'canes we got last year, some "environmental factor." Come to think of it, a lot of my local girlfriends have commented that their drives are just through the roof. Hmm...food for thought, lol. If my hypothesis has merit, can you imagine what this would do for our real estate market? I already have thoughts for our new logo on our license plates
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Hi Stenolady... I wish I could blame it on our FL sunshine, but I've lived here my entire life and certainly didn't have this problem before! I'm also running into a problem with my bf with this because he just doesn't have the same drive I do... he's 38 and I've already thought about slipping him some Viagra or something He is fine with 2 or 3 times a week... which leaves me with my toy for any other enjoyment. I'm frustrated with it because I remember my ex husband complaining because I didn't want to have sex more than twice a week, even when I was in my 20's... and now I'm ready to go at a moments notice and all I get is this confused look like (your horney again?) It's not just that, I've all of a sudden developed urges and fantasies that I never thought of before... and he just doesn't seem to be up to it. Funny thing is, he was when he was younger (we dated when he was 21 and I was 19) so it's very disappointing for me for him not to have the same stamina that he used to have. One of my girlfriends suggested getting a "boy" toy... you know a 20 something young thing... but I don't do infidelity and I don't want to end my relationship over this... too many other positive points.
Ranger, you are too funny! Now, before some crazy Net rumor gets started about all these sex-craved horny 30-something-aged women strutting all over the nude beaches of Florida fantasizing about sex with strangers and remodeling spare bedrooms, at least let me complete further research on my environmental factor hypothesis. I have colleagues in LA, southeastern TX, coastal GA, as well as coastal Carolinas...all brutally hot and humid in the summer months and generally in intense hurricanes' paths
Lady, no complaints from my hubby yet, thank goodness. It's only been a few months, tho. I, too, get that bewildered look from him. I think he's afraid to rock the boat and disrupt things. One of his favorite sayings from an exhaustively long Disney World trip years ago is, "Just put me on a ride." He's saying that a lot now!
Nah, no boy toys for me, either. I love my guy to bits, for one; two, the dating scene nowadays is downright scary; three, the, ahem, "seasoned" gentlemen know what they're doing in soooo many different ways than a 20-year-old
Yep, I totally agree, a seasoned man is definately a much better sexual partner. I had a fling with a 23 yr old right after I got divorced (I was 30) and it was highly disappointing. I forgot how selfish they can be at that age. My bf knows what to, when to and for how long and always makes sure I've gotten mine somehow or another before he get's his. I'm just bewildered on how roles have changed... way back when we were younger, he would go all night, every night... day, afternoon... shower... you get the point. Now I'm the one in that seat and although he is REALLY good at what he does, he just doesn't seem to need or want it as often as I do. Like I spent the weekend at his house and we made love Saturday night and Sunday morning, but then not again until Monday evening and well again on Tuesday afternoon. Okay, so maybe this weekend wasn't so sparse, but I just feel like I can NEVER get enough... this is what being in your prime is all about, right?
Mr. S.E. TX - if a woman's prime isn't technically till her forty's... then I'm in BIG trouble!