Peeing with climax???? - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

Ausomemom2 · 09-08-2006, 01:06 PM

I have a very embarassing question, so here goes.... My husband has this lovely new trick in the bedroom where he inserts two fingers and places his thumb onto my clitoris and moves side to side really fast. His fingers are curved upwards slightly and I think he is hitting my "G spot". It is very nice, BUT the problem is I feel like I am going to pee when it starts getting good, so I have never let myself climax, I hold back. I have told my husband this and he says he would love for me to do that, but it is a huge mental hurdle for me to get over. Peeing on my partner isn't something I have ever considered, but at the same time I can't help but be curious about it. My questions are, does it make a huge mess, do you get really embarassed afterwards, if you are having intercourse when it happens...will it hurt anything by getting urine inside of the vagina, and did the orgasm feel different than usual?? My husband and I have a very open and honest relationship, been married for 7 years, have 2 kids and we talk about everything. But this is a bridge we've never crossed. Thanks for ANY and ALL replies!!

Liamsmom · 09-08-2006, 03:58 PM

That's a gushing orgasm my dear enjoy it's fabulous!!!!!!!

Audrey-B · 09-11-2006, 04:56 AM

You may want some towels on hand.

adriennerose · 09-12-2006, 06:53 PM

i'm unclear on whether or not this is a problem ? do you want to pee ? discuss with hubby. now on the other hand if this is disturbing you, you should speak to your doctor. you mention having two children and it's possible you may have a prolapse ( bladder or uterine ) that could be corrected with surgery or a pessary.

shannonbarie · 09-12-2006, 07:28 PM

I myself have never experienced this, but from what I have read and heard from others it is natural to have the urge to urinate, but it's not actual urine that is coming out. It's along the same lines of when a man ejactulates. It is virtually impossible for a man to urinate when having an orgasm. Muscles in the urethra at the bladder sphincter tighten so no urine can come out. I say go for it and make sure you have plenty of towels on hand.