What do men think about this??? - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

PinkGem · 09-18-2006, 09:35 PM

I have a really embarrassing problem (or at least it is to me). My problem is that one side of my labia minora is considerably and very noticeably longer than the other. I have had no sexual contact with guys (which in turn as ruined almost all of my relationships to the point now that I have stopped dating all together) fearing what they will think. Now, I know for a fact that this is normal and is not a health issue but that hasn't helped me to be confident with myself "down there." So my question is, could a guy ever find that attractive? Or should I still be feeling this way?

I would love to get responds from men and women, like from women who have the same type of labia minora and who have had experiences with guys. Please help me with this! Thank you.

stuckmissy · 09-19-2006, 09:43 AM

I have the same thing. It has never been an issue what so ever. For the longest time I didn't know it was any different than anyone elses. I have never had a boyfriend even mention it. Nor do I. It doesn't matter at all!! Don't worry about it. We are all a little different, and men have parts that are a little different too!

obscure · 09-19-2006, 11:37 AM

I agree with the above and I have exactly the same. At first I felt embarrassed by it, and was unsure and nervous as to what other guys will think, though like Krissy said, it wasn't an issue for me, and i doubt it will be for you. After all, we aren't all perfect, and I doubt this is a rare thing in women. Be confident! and don't worry about it

punkybear · 09-19-2006, 02:47 PM

Yeah, I have never heard guys talk about that and I work with a lot of guys and hear pretty vulgar conversation. I think that is extremely common to have longer labia minora! That question pops up all the time on these boards. I hate that certain magazines of women who are supposed to look "ideal" make us think there is something wrong with us if we have normal looking boobs, pubic hair

! and heaven forbid long labia minora!!

Of all my physical features, that is the last one I sit and worry about.

PinkGem · 09-19-2006, 04:59 PM

Thank you all so much! I appreciate your replies.