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Old 11-14-2006, 12:27 PM   #1
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Questions about fingering

My wife likes me fingering her. She can orgasm and become very wet when I finger her cervix. But I remember her cervix was much smaller a few years ago. Now her cervix is near her vagina opening. Could fingering cause that? She walks on treadmill a lot (7 miles / 2 hours a day, 365 days a year). Or could over-exercise be the cause of her cervix to drop down? Or simply because of aging (she's 47).

Another question is that she was painful with one finger a few years ago. Now I have to use four fingers to get her wet, and much forceful. I could see I would have to use my whole fist pretty soon. Will this cause any problem? By the way, she is underweighted and too thin to have periods for six years (almost, maybe have couple of times of period a year). Not sure whether this has something to do with her problem.

 
Old 11-15-2006, 08:51 AM   #2
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Re: Questions about fingering

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My wife likes me fingering her. She can orgasm and become very wet when I finger her cervix. But I remember her cervix was much smaller a few years ago. Now her cervix is near her vagina opening. Could fingering cause that? She walks on treadmill a lot (7 miles / 2 hours a day, 365 days a year). Or could over-exercise be the cause of her cervix to drop down? Or simply because of aging (she's 47).

Another question is that she was painful with one finger a few years ago. Now I have to use four fingers to get her wet, and much forceful. I could see I would have to use my whole fist pretty soon. Will this cause any problem? By the way, she is underweighted and too thin to have periods for six years (almost, maybe have couple of times of period a year). Not sure whether this has something to do with her problem.
I'm only 23 so I don't know too much about the way a woman's body ages. But.. I have heard of the cervix or uterus decending if a woman has not had a hysterectomy. It was very disturbing for me to hear this bit of imformation!! Like woman don't go through enough, now we have to worry about our uterus falling out! haha..

I don't think exercise would effect her in that way. I don't know if her being too thin and having irregular periods would have anything to do with it. But I'm not a doctor. Has she been to the doctor about her irregular cycles? Does she seem to be concerned about this problem? Is this something that you've noticed but haven't mentioned it to her?

What about menopause? Maybe it has something to do with that. She could go to her gyno, get a check up, just to make sure everything is ok, and normal.

As far as the amount of fingers you now use, I wouldn't be terribly concerned about that. It's similar to a girl losing her virginity.. it hurts the first time. Then after a while, it doesn't hurt so much anymore. It sounds unattractive to say that women stretch out, but in a sense, I guess that's what it is. I'm sure it probably hurt her a little bit when you started using more fingers. I don't think "fisting" would cause problems, considering woman are able to give birth! Of course you don't want to be too rough while doing it, the same goes for fingering. She'll know what's too rough for her.

If you haven't already, I suggest discussing your concerns with her and see what her oppinion is. I'm not sure I helped at all.

Good luck!

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Old 11-16-2006, 07:16 PM   #3
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Re: Questions about fingering

Thanks Jen. My wife just had her annual physical, Pap test, Mammography, etc. Her doctor said everything is fine. But I got the impression that doctors tend to say, don't worry, everything is fine, especially during routine check-up. Even when you complain about something, they sort of "downplay" them. I am not sure it's because my wife and I are in a HMO health plan. Like everything else, the qualities of goods and services are not good as they were ten, twenty years ago.

 
Old 11-16-2006, 08:52 PM   #4
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Lower estrogen, due to age and/or underweight status, can cause the uterus to drop lower in the body. Her doctor can do a blood test to check estrogen levels and give you a definitive answer.

 
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Re: Questions about fingering

I'm not sure about her cervix changing and all, but I'm sure she would be okay.. but if she is worried she can always ask a second doctor's opinion. I haven't heard of it dropping or anything.

If she isn't getting periods anymore, that is not a good thing if it is caused by being underweight. She can get very sick that way.. she should talk to her doctor about it. Sometimes it might just be the hormones, but if she isn't eating enough, her life can be in danger if she isnt getting periods. Her body stops functions like this so she can continue to live and have energy to do other things.. so very important thing to get taken care of and checked on just in case!

 
Old 11-28-2006, 12:27 PM   #6
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Thanks to both of you. I'll let her watch estrogen levels. Her underweight was the focus of my earlier post "Wife addicted to treadmill". I got many advices and suggestions there.

 
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