Question for women - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

graysilm · 02-01-2007, 01:17 PM

I love performing oral on my girlfriend. She really doesn't seem to like it. Really the only way she orgasms is when shes on top, or through masturbation. I wish she like me to perform oral on her. Everywhere I read how much women love oral. Why dosen't my girlfriend?

mrbojangle · 02-01-2007, 03:07 PM

That's a question only she can answer!!

desertdweller · 02-01-2007, 10:35 PM

I'm the same way. For me, the whole clitoris area is too sensitive. It hurts more than feels pleasurable. Most guys that I have told that I don't like oral sex tell me that I just haven't had the right guy, with the right technique.

I sounds bad, but I have had many, many, men try. It just doesn't feel good. I just don't like the direct clitoral area touched. I don't touch it when masturbating, so why would I want anybody else to touch it? Luckily, I like plenty of other areas touched

Don't feel bad, I think your girlfriend probably feels the same as I do.

StenoLady1 · 02-02-2007, 05:52 AM

Really, there's only one person who can answer this, your GF.

It could be a sensitivity thing like the PP mentioned, or it could just be she would prefer a different technique than what you're currently doing, and maybe she's a bit shy about speaking up.

leilani3202 · 02-02-2007, 08:57 AM

maybe shes self conscience about u being down there. she might be worrying that she smells bad, or tastes weird, or something like that and its preventing her from enjoying it. ive only orgasmed from clitoral stimulation, but all women are different. and from the sounds of it she doesnt mind her clit being stimulated, just not in that way...