sex is hurting me ( please help ) - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

in_love · 02-12-2007, 07:31 AM

well my fiance is my first guy i have been with. me and him started having sex 4 months ago. well for the past 2 months its been hurting me. like.. his ( area ) is scrapping on the side of me while he have intercourse. we are TTC but it hurts to much to have intercourse. we havent had intercourse for 4 days. i thought i was just sore but when we tryed yesterday and its only in one spot its like when he sticks it in its a sharp pain everywhere!!! it hurts so bad. we are really wanting a baby and i want want to have painful sex anymore

what can be wrong?! someone please help me.

sobannon · 02-12-2007, 12:33 PM

Have you tried some KY jelly or some other type of water soluble lubricant? Don't use an oil based lubricant if you are TTC.

Amy

Pink4Flower · 02-12-2007, 03:02 PM

Check out the thread titled "vaginismus"... That could be the case..

It's no fun, but apparently it IS treatable..

try-ink · 02-13-2007, 06:40 PM

I think....it's time to get yourself check-out. Make an appointment to see your gynecologist.

It's gonna be a whole lot better...then just guessing.(I think)

tmomma80 · 02-14-2007, 01:52 PM

Yeah I think you may need to see a doctor. Have you tried looking down there on the side that feels like is hurting? It may be a sore due to rubbing or its sounds like it could be herpes if there is an ulcer there. Go get checked out and Hope everything is fine. Goodluck