Re: Im feeling really down lately. Help Me
From a male perspective, I don't think you are the problem at all. For him to have zero drive, not be able to maintain an erection and not even want to seek help for it tells me he's either a) very selfish, or b) cheating on you. I don't mean to sound harsh, but I don't see it any other way. He is not fulfilling your needs at all and doesn't seem to care about it right? You deserve to be treated right and when the sex just stopped, something happened and he doesn't want to do anything about it!
I personally would put him on the spot. Spill your heart out to him and tell him exacly how you feel like you did here. If he is still not willing to seek medical help, then tell him your needs are not being met and you want to leave him. If he doesn't act shocked or do everything possible to keep you, he wasn't worth it!