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Old 03-29-2007, 07:53 AM   #1
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Re: Help My husband would rather masterbate than have sex

I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24 and he never wants to have sex with me any more but I will find him masterbating in the middle of the night in the bathroom, to playboy magazines.. I mean thats not so bad but he is even doing it to nothing, he will just go in the bathroom and masterbate. Mind you I am almost 6 months pregnant with his child. But my sex drive is so high right now and he's never in the mood but the second that he thinks I am asleep he goes ion the bathroom... I need help too...

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Old 03-29-2007, 04:17 PM   #2
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Re: Help My husband would rather masterbate than have sex

big bear, i am sorry that your husband is doing this. maybe he is afraid of hurting the baby? i am angry at men who don't attend to the needs of their wives while she is pregnant! it hurts me so much, and i'm not even involved.

ask him about it. ask in a way that will encourage honesty.

so many men have an unrealistic view, and little appreciation, for how a woman naturally looks. but as long as we continue to get boob jobs, glob ourselves with makeup, unhealthy fashion, etc. we can't completely blame them. that's why i wish more women would have self confidence, because it makes it harder on the rest of us. when that woman goes and gets a boob job, it sends the message that there is something wrong with her natural appearance. and so for those of us content with our natural looks, we're still stuck trying to pick through an assortment of men, most with the wrong idea of what is beautiful. maybe i'm just some stupid hippie, haha. no wonder i'm so lonely.

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Old 03-29-2007, 06:36 PM   #3
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Re: My husband would rather masterbate than have sex

It could be that he's afraid of hurting the baby. You're lucky that you still want it at six months, I was always too big and it was awkward - though we did do it when I was 9 months pregnant with my youngest child - to bring on the labour - lol!!

Perhaps you could ask him. Is it because he's afraid of hurting the baby, or is it something else? Try not to take it personally. He could be afraid of hurting the baby, or maybe just feels a bit uncomfortable - say if the baby moves while you're on the job - my husband would have found that off-putting or distracting - like if the cat jumps on the bed during intercourse. Perhaps suggest mutual masturbation? Then both your needs will be met - somewhat.

 
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