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Old 06-12-2007, 10:07 AM   #1
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Why cant I feel anything?

Hey,
I would first like to say that I am pretty new to sex and have only started doing it for about 2 months. When me and my bf have sex at first it feels pretty good, not great, but it feels good, but after a little time I stop feeling things all together, I can not even feel him inside me. First off I would like to feel sex which is why i'm having it, and I can never orgasm if I cant feel anything during it. Do you think maybe it is the positions we are in or something else?

 
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Old 06-12-2007, 07:43 PM   #2
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Re: Why cant I feel anything?

Seems that you may be excessively "loose" and that he be grossly "undersize" or some combination of both. Also. it may be that your expectations are unrealistic. Just keep working at it for a while.

 
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Re: Why cant I feel anything?

Well since it feels good at first, but after a whgile you don't feel anything probably means you are extremely aroused, which makes less friction for you both. If you're not orgasming from penetration, you are probably one of the 70% of women who doesn't orgasm that way and would benefit from clitoral stimulation by either oral sex or manual stimulation. It doesn't mean you're loose and it doesn't mean your S/O is small, most of the time, that is how nature is. Not to mention only about 1/3 of the vagina has a significant amount of nerves, the farther up you go, the less amount of nerves there are (for child birth reasons).

Spend more time with foreplay, oral sex and manual stimulation before you have intercourse and see how that goes. You can also try kegals to tone you pelvic muscles which does improve orgasms in both men and women.

Good Luck to you.

 
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Re: Why cant I feel anything?

As leaf80 said, most women don't orgasm from penetration alone, there really aren't hardly any nerves in there, mostly at the opening. The key is usually the clitoris so maybe you could get him to put some attention there too.

 
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Re: Why cant I feel anything?

it could just be that you're a rookie

 
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