no libido - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

John1941 · 10-25-2007, 03:30 PM

My wife for 40years is not interested in sex with me at all for last 10years.We sleep in seperate beds.Is there anything i can do to change our stituationand having a full sexual relation ship. I am 66 years old and she is 62 years old

chevyman · 10-25-2007, 11:51 PM

hi,
Well have you mention it to her....to be intiment with her?
maybe she feels the same way you do but just afraid to ask?
you make the first move, or just tell her you want to start sleeping in the same bed, there's some women after a certain age likes to be alone in a single bed, why I don't know?
congrulations on your 40 year marrige thats great!

jete23 · 10-29-2007, 06:09 AM

John,

Sadly most women lose their sex drive when they hit menopause. WHy did you begin to sleep in separate beds to begin with? Have you confronted your wife about this issue? Maybe try a bit of romance-soft music, dinner, candles, wine. It might help to facilitate the mood.

John1941 · 10-29-2007, 07:32 PM

Good day, and thank you for the thought and suggestions It reminds me rather than pointing the finger at my wife, i should be looking at myself
Best wishes & kindest regards
john1941