risk of pregnancy without penetration? - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

fiona515 · 03-30-2008, 07:49 PM

My bf and I have not had sex yet, I am not on birth control, but at least both of us have been tested. But we have both done oral on each other and, err, his penis has been around my vagina when erect. Is there any risk of pregnancy from that? Am close to getting my period, soon, waiting for that. Should I go get EPT just in case? If I get my period am I 100% safe or can you still get a period the first month if you're pregnant?
I've read that there is no semen in precum, but other places say there is, especially if he ejaculated and did not urinate afterwards.
Just wondering if I should perhaps be taking the proactive step of going to get that test..

MissKiss · 03-30-2008, 09:31 PM

From what i read, i don't think there is a chance for you to get pregnant. Also, don't mean to scare you but i did get my period the first month when i was pregnant with my daughter (my 2nd). It was very light though so the alarm went off.

microwave · 03-31-2008, 09:06 AM

Yes, you CAN get pregnant if his penis touches your vagina or external genitals. Pre-*** contains lubricant, fluids, and SEMEN, so you CAN get pregnant that way! If his erect penis is touching your genitalia, he needs to wear a condom!

Also, regardless of your menstrual cycle, it is possible to get pregnant at any time of the month (although it's not always as likely). Sometimes cycles are off or you may ovulate twice in a cycle, or other such things happen.

tUrRrRa · 03-31-2008, 05:17 PM

I know who got pregnant TWICE as a virgin when her boyfriend's penis was near her vagina and he ejaculated near her opening. I guess some semen got in without them realizing. Your chances are slim, but if it's near your vagina, I'd definitely use protection to be extra safe or have him stay away from the area!

fiona515 · 04-03-2008, 05:28 PM

Thank you for responding! He never ejaculated anywhere near me, but did touch. I took a pregnancy test just now, not pregnant, supposed to get period in next 5-7 days, will take in a week or so, or if I don't get a period.
Thanks!