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Old 08-06-2008, 12:49 PM   #1
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How Does It Make A Woman Feel When A Man Masterbates All The Time Instead Of Sex

How Does It Make A Woman Feel When A Man Masterbates All The Time Instead Of Sex

 
Old 08-06-2008, 01:20 PM   #2
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Re: How Does It Make A Woman Feel When A Man Masterbates All The Time Instead Of Sex

I once had a boyfriend who did that - he prefered porn to the real thing apparently. Can't say that it made me feel all that great. I have a huge issue with men & porn/masturbation now because of that.

 
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I just posted this on another question and saw this.. must be a sign! It depends on the reason he's doing it. If hes doing it constantly then of course you're going to feel hurt. Come on... if women were were doing this evey day with male p*rn... men would be crushed by this... CRUSHED.... their masculinity would be in peril in their eyes... Guys need to be more cognizant of this.... put the shoe on the other foot... I'd ask him what the heck was going on... There is definitely a problem.

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Old 08-08-2008, 07:05 AM   #4
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Re: How Does It Make A Woman Feel When A Man Masterbates All The Time Instead Of Sex

Caroline says

"?...I feel that if my husband had to masturbate, which he never has,"

Sorry but that really gave me a laugh this morning.

 
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Re: How Does It Make A Woman Feel When A Man Masterbates All The Time Instead Of Sex

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I think this is one of those questions where "it depends"..........

Masturbation is a very normal part of the human experience....All animals do it, including humans of course. I think that if it were an every so often kind of thing, then there is nothing wrong. For whatever reason, the person may feel like masturbating...Tension release, fantasy, whatever.

However, if the masturbation became frequent enough to where it started to cause problems...i.e interfere with your sex life, then it becomes an issue that needs to be addressed. There could be some underlying cause, or some issue in the relationship. Maybe the person isn't comfortable with their own body, but still desires sexual interaction. There could be a whole slew of possible reasons.

As with any relationship issue, I think you need to talk about it. I realize it's hard to bluntly bring it up, but may you could in a subtle way....Or start talking sex stuff and bring it up that way. Regardless, if your situation falls in this second category, you need to get it out into the open somehow.

Good luck.

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It makes them go out nd have a affair..I did!

 
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Re: How Does It Make A Woman Feel When A Man Masterbates All The Time Instead Of Sex

jrfrazier, if you're having a problem with this with your husband, you have to talk to him. The key point is whether it's interfering with your relationship - sexual and otherwise. If you two aren't in agreement about the frequency of sex and the remedies one partner might seek to fill in the gaps, this is usually a VERY big problem.

Do keep in mind though, that some masturbation is normal and to expect a partner to never do it is generally considered unreasonable, but excessive masturbation to the point of excluding the partner, is not generally considered acceptable behaviour. Good luck.

 
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Re: How Does It Make A Woman Feel When A Man Masterbates All The Time Instead Of Sex

Hi JrFrazier - How does it feel? Well, when it happened in one of my long term relationships, late 20's to early 30's, I felt, because he would do it in the same bed, making the bed shake, and he obviously new I was awake, he was sending me a very insulting message. It made me resent him, and the fact he wouldn't talk to me about it.
So just to avoid it, I started sleeping on the couch. Relationship over,that was 15 years ago, But still friends now. Sherbear38

 
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