Multiple Questions - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

ShaShaSkah · 09-11-2008, 10:10 PM

I'm 22 and only had sex with one man in my life. we where both virgins the first time we had sex and we never saw any one else the whole time we were together for 5 years on and off. We were checked regularly we both are neg on all tests.

First question is that when ever we had sex I would always get really bad pains in my pelvic area near where your leg connets to your pelvic bone. It would hurt really badly when he would try to get fast and hard. Any idea what this could be?

Second Question: Lately I have felt so horny everyday where for a while I had to masterbate every night just to go to sleep. Even when I knew I couldnt really be horny I felt that way. I also never got an orgasm via sex only by my self.

3rd We would have sex maybe once a month at first then when he moved closer to where I lived we did it more often for the pass 5-6 months when we would have sex It would hurt so badly after sex when I pee or even sit down. We had already been together for years before this started.
Then I started getting very itchy down there but only around my pubic hair. Never inside. Then when i go to wipe there would be blood but not from my period. I took a peek and there were 2 or 3 little red bleeding bumps that would come and go every few days. I do have an IUD but I have had it for a while and this just started recently. I'm trying to get a OB/GYN visit from my doctor however they are very packed and it'll be a while before I can get checked any ideas on how i can get it to stop till I can get to a doctor or something. I dont have the money to go to ER and what not

thanks

Bluebug938 · 09-23-2008, 08:34 PM

Well the first thing you have to do is try to figure out if this is a bladder/urethra problem or a vaginal problem. If it hurts when you pee, is it b/c the pee is touching tender skin of your vagina? Or is it the peeing itself? One way to tell (and I know this sounds kinda gross, but it does work) is pee while sitting in the bath. If it still hurts than it’s a bladder problem. If not, than it’s a vaginal problem.

If you had an IUD (a bladder problem) you would DEFINITY know it? They hurt really badly. You would be begging a doc to see you ASAP. It doesn't sound that dire. If you determine that it is your bladder but not bad enough to be and IUD, maybe your BF is just going at you too hard and he is causing some inflammation. If so, maybe you should encourage him to be gentler, and see if that fixes it.

If you determine it is your vagina that hurts maybe you have a yeast or other infection. These types of problems really need to be treated by a doc and should be taken care of as soon as possible. I would suggest you make an apt and wait it out if you can.

While you wait to either feel better or see your doc, perhaps you should lay off the sex for a while. Also I wanted to mention that several of your problems maybe be completely unrelated. Like these bumps you mentioned and the pain in your leg...I’m not sure what to say about that b/c of the lack of details.

Hope I helped.