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Old 03-30-2009, 08:29 AM   #1
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my husband doesn't make love to me, but masturbates in shower

my husband doesnt make love to me, but masterbates in shower says he loves me dearly and doesnt need anyone else.

 
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Old 04-01-2009, 05:41 PM   #2
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Re: my husband doesnt make love to me, but masterbates in shower

You haven't given us much to go on. There could be many reasons. Hopefully, you can have an honest talk with him to find out why he doesn't want to have sex with you. He does seem to be withholding something important from you, and there has to be a reason for it. Take an honest look at yourself to see if you might be the cause (do you nag him, make fun of him, control him, etc).

 
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Old 04-01-2009, 09:07 PM   #3
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Re: my husband doesnt make love to me, but masterbates in shower

we are very independent people. i have tried talking to him. says hes tired, i feel like i am living with a roommate. we have fun together but no bedroom fun.

 
Old 04-02-2009, 12:42 PM   #4
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Re: my husband doesnt make love to me, but masterbates in shower

Maybe have a shower with him?
Maybe start by masturbating him yourself?
My Man likes to watch me shower and Masturbate...If he likes to play with himself...try incorperating that into your sex life.

 
Old 04-07-2009, 04:17 AM   #5
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Re: my husband doesnt make love to me, but masterbates in shower

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Maybe have a shower with him?
Maybe start by masturbating him yourself?
My Man likes to watch me shower and Masturbate...If he likes to play with himself...try incorperating that into your sex life.
and if that does not work, he does not fancy you, so change your husband.

 
Old 04-07-2009, 06:46 AM   #6
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Re: my husband doesn't make love to me, but masturbates in shower

What stage of life is he at? Mid life, work pressure, money worries all play a part in lowered labido. If you tell him how it is effecting you and your relationship, he may well open up and tell you whats really going on.

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Old 03-25-2010, 02:06 AM   #7
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Re: my husband doesn't make love to me, but masturbates in shower

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my husband doesnt make love to me, but masterbates in shower says he loves me dearly and doesnt need anyone else.
so do my husband.he always told me when at bed that he is tired.and always his thing wont erict.but i know my husband loves me a lot .im just worried why he is always like this.i thought only my situation is like this now we are 2

 
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