Re: my husband doesnt make love to me, but masterbates in shower
You haven't given us much to go on. There could be many reasons. Hopefully, you can have an honest talk with him to find out why he doesn't want to have sex with you. He does seem to be withholding something important from you, and there has to be a reason for it. Take an honest look at yourself to see if you might be the cause (do you nag him, make fun of him, control him, etc).