Earlier, I had asked a question about this subject, and asked if it was “normal” and safe that my female partner wants me to pee into her mouth while she is giving me oral sex, and she also wants me to pee inside her vagina while we are having genital sex.
I guess the question was not clear – sorry. What I meant was, she wants me to pee in her mouth and inside her vagina occasionally, knowing that I would not have an erection at the time because an erection would make it very difficult to pee at the time. My questions were neither if it were possible nor if anyone thought that she was of sound mind. I was asking if it was “normal,” and was really meaning if peeing on or in someone was a common practice, such as oral sex and anal.
Some would argue that oral sex was not “normal,” or common, and many would say the same about anal. However, both of these acts seem to be widely practiced, so I was wondering if the same held true for peeing on or in a partner – officially called Golden Showers/Water Sports I think.
I have never heard of peeing inside someone’s mouth or vagina, only on their bodies. Therefore I was asking about this to see if this is “normally” practiced and enjoyed, or if there may be some reason why my g/f wants this. We all have certain things we like for some reason, maybe she has her reasons, unless this is just something others enjoy and it’s practiced but not talked about that much… that is how anal intercourse was several years ago… done but not discussed.
I have also since learned that it is a safe practice since urine is sterile.
I still would like to know somehow, for my own reassurance and peace of mind, if what she wants is just her, or if it is something that some others enjoy as well, making this not such an issue. Thank you.
What is "normal"? Who knows. There's a lot of fetishes out there.
Perhaps a good indication of what fetishes are more mainstream than others is how much porn there is on the topic. So-called "golden showers" are definitely out there, but I wouldn't say there's a ton of it.
Well I can safely say that peeing into someones mouth is not normal, sorry but I am not buying this "my GF wants me to pee into her mouth bit" This type of thing has to do with degrading someone, it is not something someone would request. Someone that wants to degrade someone may want to pee in someones mouth. Maybe this is what you want to do to her, maybe you want to know if that is acceptable. No dude its not, not on any level.
Well I can safely say that peeing into someones mouth is not normal, sorry but I am not buying this "my GF wants me to pee into her mouth bit" This type of thing has to do with degrading someone, it is not something someone would request. Someone that wants to degrade someone may want to pee in someones mouth. Maybe this is what you want to do to her, maybe you want to know if that is acceptable. No dude its not, not on any level.
Ahhh... NO, you are wrong. Apparently you have NO clue that some people get turned on by various things, like some enjoy S&M, some enjoy being hurt and humiliated, some enjoy being spanked. For me, I would like enjoy spanking someone, because I know it's gotta hurt and I am not into hurt, OR HUMILIATING someone -- reguarless if I love, care, or don't even know them.
You can consider this wrong and think it is a form of degrading, but if someone enjoys this being done to them, then that is simply the way SHE and some people are...
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Bludragon, I understand what you are asking. I think almost everybody has their little quirks and some of them may seem more odd than others. Something of that sort would never interest me, but I don't think either of you are strange or weird. I think it's cool that she can tell you what she wants. If it is something you aren't comfortable with I think you should let her know. If not, then what's the harm?
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Bludragon, I understand what you are asking. I think almost everybody has their little quirks and some of them may seem more odd than others. Something of that sort would never interest me, but I don't think either of you are strange or weird. I think it's cool that she can tell you what she wants. If it is something you aren't comfortable with I think you should let her know. If not, then what's the harm?
Thank you very much. That's good advice... I can tell her I am not comfortable with that and see what she says. I was worried about offending her. And I love your quote. I used to have that as part of my signature line at work.
I am not saying it is not their buisness, I am saying I do not believe this post.
Intel, sorry about the strong reply yesterday. I was offended that you would take the time and effort to reply to my concern just to call me a liar. Let me assure you that I have been honest with this thread.
As I said in my reply yesterday, people have their own things they like and own things that turn them on. I do NOT get into hurting or degrading anyone. I do not joy it and it sure does not turn me on. Such as the spanking I mentioned, I could not do that to someone I love -- hurt them because THEY like it and THEY get turned on by it -- I would not be turned on by hurting someone. Also, there are many people (men and women) that enjoy facials -- having a man ejaculate on their faces. I do not get a joy out of that either, but for the peeps that do... I say do whatever THEY enjoy. Also, I know that some people enjoy being tied up -- it's a turn on for THEM, not necessarily for the person tying them up or seeing them tied up... and then there are people that really enjoy being strangled while having sex. My g/f wants me to do that too... but I told her I could not do that... that was TOO much.
I only wanted to know if it was a common practice that other women enjoyed or if my g/f was in the extreme minority. I just needed some sort of confirmation for my own peace of mind.
Sounds like you and your gf aren't necessarily a good match in the bedroom. I would think about that, before getting too far down the relationship road.
I only wanted to know if it was a common practice that other women enjoyed or if my g/f was in the extreme minority
Not common at all. She is in the extreme minority if she gets off on that type of thing. Not sure where she picked up this particular fetish but it's really a weird one for sure.
Sounds like you and your gf aren't necessarily a good match in the bedroom. I would think about that, before getting too far down the relationship road.
Yeah... my thoughts too. but in ALL other ways... we are wonderful!!!!!!
Thank you very much. That's good advice... I can tell her I am not comfortable with that and see what she says. I was worried about offending her. And I love your quote. I used to have that as part of my signature line at work.
You're welcome!
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Sorry if you already answered this question elsewhere but has your girlfriend already experienced this and knows for sure she enjoys it? Or is she just curious?
As for how common it is, I've heard of golden showers but not specifically urinating IN the mouth or vagina. I would imagine that particular kind would be more rare, also given how hard it would be do actually do (you'd have to be erect to enter her, but soft to actually urinate).
My response comes from some education. Golden showers, or whatever you want to call it, water sports and so on, the person that enjoys this type of activity is the one doing the urinating not the other way around. It is a humiliation fantasy fetish.
I also think that the simple fact that you posted this on another thread is suspect, I think you didn't get the responses you wanted, so you posted it on the womens thread, you wanted a womans thoughts on your fetish, for whatever reason.
My response comes from some education. Golden showers, or whatever you want to call it, water sports and so on, the person that enjoys this type of activity is the one doing the urinating not the other way around. It is a humiliation fantasy fetish.
I think for any fetish imaginable, there's someone who's into it on both sides. Not sure about this case, though.
My response comes from some education. Golden showers, or whatever you want to call it, water sports and so on, the person that enjoys this type of activity is the one doing the urinating not the other way around. It is a humiliation fantasy fetish.
I also think that the simple fact that you posted this on another thread is suspect, I think you didn't get the responses you wanted, so you posted it on the womens thread, you wanted a womans thoughts on your fetish, for whatever reason.
LoL.... again you are showing your lack of knowledge. I had entered the question in this woman's thred... just didn't make my question clear... and you speak about your response coming from some education -- that lead you to assume too much... based upon generalities... so you are wrong on both counts. Just give it up... you only look worse when you respond without knowing.
Sorry if you already answered this question elsewhere but has your girlfriend already experienced this and knows for sure she enjoys it? Or is she just curious?
As for how common it is, I've heard of golden showers but not specifically urinating IN the mouth or vagina. I would imagine that particular kind would be more rare, also given how hard it would be do actually do (you'd have to be erect to enter her, but soft to actually urinate).
Thank you. Yes, she's tried this before and seems to be turned on by it, much like I tried to explain to "Intel." Some people get turned on by different things, regardless if it would turn him on or not. It just did not appeal to me, so I was needing some sort of confirmation if this was something others liked -- male or female, of if it was just her. I think I will have to tell her I cannot do that for her.
At the same time... I know how it is when you want something and cannot get it... you look elsewhere or are unsatisfied and I do not want her to be unsatisfied or looking elsewhere.
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but in ALL other ways... we are wonderful!!!!!! 
