Well it hurt me the first time. And we were both virgins. The funny thing was, I don't even know if you can really consider my first time a real first time. Cause it never really went the whole way in. Just a little. I dunno. He just kept pumpin away like it was in and I kept thinkin "Isn't the penis supposed to go in there while we are doing it?" So I just layed back and moaned cause I didn't know if he was doing it right or not. At least it didn't hurt as bad once it went soft and came out. Then after he was done pumping he rolled over and said "oh baby that was good" So I guess he at least had fun. Uh oh. Did I get off the topic here? Sorry bout that.
Every woman/girl will be different. My first time didnt hurt at all. I wasnt even sore afterwards.
Though it does help if the woman/girl is very aroused,wet and relaxed. Taking your time and going slow helps in wonderful ways.
Also it doesnt matter how much of the penis enters the vagina once it is in that is it,your first time is gone.
It hurt for me probably about the first five times i had sex. It was pretty painful and I was always sore afterwards. But like golddustwolf said every women is different. It may hurt like hell, or it may not hurt at all and feel really good. It does help to be relaxed and really wet. If you're tense and not aroused then yes it will hurt, even if you're not a virgin. So just relax and take it slow. Also make sure it's with someone you really love and care about. Your first time should be special. I regret mine. It was with my ex and after I gave it up, it seemed like that's all he wanted and eventually we broke up. Our first time was not the least bit special. And every time after that wasn't either. But now that I'm with someone else. Sex is so much better. He showed me the way sex is supposed to be. And it's special every time. So just make sure you know for sure that you're in love and this person loves you back just as much before you jump in bed with him. I hope this helps. Good Luck.
It hurt me for the first couple of months, in fact our song was John Cougar's Hurt so good. Our inside joke. Movies and books make it sound so wonderful. For me the best part were the emotions I felt, not pleasure. I have been married to my first and only going on 19 years and sex is pretty terrific for us.
LoL!Sweet Marie, that's a cute & funny story(sorry if it's not supposed to be <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/gabby.gif">)
My first time only hurt slightly because using a tampon broke my hymen and I masterbated a lot before I had sex for the first time. <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/round.gif"> This is another good reason for people(especially young people)to masterbate, other than to get familiar and comfortable with your body, it also prepares your body for sex <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/grad.gif"> <IMG SRC="http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/dance.gif">