Re: Does it always hurt the first time???
It hurt for me probably about the first five times i had sex. It was pretty painful and I was always sore afterwards. But like golddustwolf said every women is different. It may hurt like hell, or it may not hurt at all and feel really good. It does help to be relaxed and really wet. If you're tense and not aroused then yes it will hurt, even if you're not a virgin. So just relax and take it slow. Also make sure it's with someone you really love and care about. Your first time should be special. I regret mine. It was with my ex and after I gave it up, it seemed like that's all he wanted and eventually we broke up. Our first time was not the least bit special. And every time after that wasn't either. But now that I'm with someone else. Sex is so much better. He showed me the way sex is supposed to be. And it's special every time. So just make sure you know for sure that you're in love and this person loves you back just as much before you jump in bed with him. I hope this helps. Good Luck.