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Old 09-13-2001, 10:26 PM   #1
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Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

Hi everyone, here's one for you. Do guys find womens genitals attractive. I don't like the look of mine I think the labia is to big on one side. It twists and gets in the way during sex, and depending on the time of the month the color seems to change. My bf said the other day that sometimes the look grosses him out a bit, but said he thought that mens genitals were ugly too. Naturally his comment upset me as I don't feel good about how they look anyway. Has anyone else got this problem with the size of their lips and has anyone had labioplasty to fix it. My bf had only been with one other person before me so its not like he has seen a great deal of them apart from in mags and these are probably computer docked anyway. I'd be really interested in everyones view , guys and gals.

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Old 09-14-2001, 12:08 AM   #2
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

To be honest there isn't really a correct answer to your question: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

All men are different, some may say they like the looks while others may not like the way some look or any for that matter. It all comes down to the guy and what he likes or dislikes. Guys may say the are leg men or breast men and so on. I could go on to explain what I like but that wouldn't help you. It's up to you to pick the right guy who likes you for you, not the way certain body parts look.

I can understand why his comment upset you. After all you are who you are. There are some guys out there that would tell you they like the way it looks.

In my opinion, once you accept this part of your body, and begin to "like" the way it looks, this won't be as important. As for your b/f, he'll have to accept you for who you are also.

The point is there is nothing wrong with you. Everyone is different. There is no normal. Some may look alike, but there are differences.

Old 09-14-2001, 05:45 AM   #3
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

To answer your question..YOU are YOU. How you look is not as important as who you are. If this is only your second BF, you don't have a wide varity of experence in what's normal except what's in books..which, IHO, is aimed at selling the book. Are you aiming to sell yourself? If not, just relax. Flaws, if that's what they are, are part of what makes you you.
Men, as a general rule, are visual creatures. The fact that you're showing yourself in such a provotive manner shows that you understand this simple fact.

Old 09-14-2001, 08:25 AM   #4
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

Let's just say that if you are in a position for a man to be looking at that part of your body, I can't think of ONE who would say, "Sorry honny, your labia is too wierd."

I don't see your boyfriend walking away in disgust <IMG SRC="">

Old 09-14-2001, 10:39 AM   #5
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

Don't change anthing about your body. If your BF truly loves you, he loves every part of you. Personally, I do find women's genitals attractive. The appearance does vary from person to person and that's one of the things I find attractive. DO NOT have surgery on your genitals. IMHO it is not worth the money or the pain. accept yourself for the way you look, that's what makes you, you <IMG SRC="">

Old 09-14-2001, 12:59 PM   #6
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

Have you ever noticed that the structure of some flowers look like, well... YOU know! If you haven't noticed, take a look at some of Georgia O'Keefe's paintings and you'll see what I mean. Now, I'm a female, but I have to think that many, many men don't find that area unattractive in the least... otherwise why would there be so many porno mags that feature close-ups of same? Don't worry. Maybe your bf's a little immature.

Old 09-14-2001, 08:49 PM   #7
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

Thanks for the replies everyone you were all very helpful. I have just been to the web site suggested by phoenix1 and found it very helpful. Thankyou again

Old 09-22-2001, 07:32 AM   #8
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

I used to find womens genitals and their smell gross. Especially with my first 2 girlfriends. But with time I found them more and more attractive. Now I find a shaven vagina very beautiful and if I love the women I am sure I will love her vagina too. I am not into too much hair down there. It gets into the teeth etc.

Old 09-28-2001, 01:51 PM   #9
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

Hi,This is my feedback to your question do men find a vagina gross looking,I dont find them Gross at all.I love the looks,scent,texture,and the Labia lips of a vagina.Womens Vaginas are a truly a turn on for me.I've been with my share of women and to this date I've found them all Attractive in there own special way.But then thats my idea.

Old 10-02-2001, 04:42 PM   #10
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

wow, I am too busy thinking about how fat my butt must look or how asymmetrical my breasts are to even get to an ugly vagina...

Old 10-02-2001, 05:00 PM   #11
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

I had to say this, the exterior part of the women, that everyone keeps refering to as a vagina, is not a vagina, it is a vulva. You cannot see the vagina just from looking between a woman's legs.

Old 10-04-2001, 09:09 PM   #12
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

Just wondering...
when was the last time you thought your bf's penis looked handsome?
I think all genitalia is going to have some sort of oddity to them because, since they're not often exposed, & there really is no "norm" to the way they should look.
Just to make him think... maybe you should ask your bf if his penis is really supposed to look like THAT?
I'm sure he'll realize that he sould have been more sensitive to your feelings.
good luck! <IMG SRC="">

Old 10-06-2001, 11:49 AM   #13
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Re: Do men find the look of womens vaginas gross?

I don't mean to change the subject but in response to the last post on the though of a mans penis not being hansome... Well I am soo attracted to my bf penis... I love.. Soft, hard, in between...

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