all the threads i find about this are closed. If you are going to come on here and say I am expecting too much or what not, please don't post anything. I sincerely want help, and I'm not making this up. If you aren't experiencing it, than please don't judge.
I have been having sex for 6 years, i'm 22. I am completely numb down there. It used to hurt, until I used more lube, but otherwise its just numb. I have the general sense of fullness that all women get when something (even a tampon) is inside them, but I cannot feel movement, let alone any pleasure. I'm not expecting orgasm, but most people enjoy what sex feels like, and I can feel nothing. i also cannot be aroused. Both have been problems my entire life. I can orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation, but there is not arousal about it. Its strictly that body part doing what its supposed to do. I have no idea if I was sexually abused, no one ever mentioned it. But I don't remember the first 10 years of my life. that aside, I have tried many things to try and fix the problem. Medication. Toys. Different positions. foreplay. Nothing works. Its nothing wrong with my husband - he is actually over average. Its extremely frustrating and effects all parts of my life. Sex is vital to marriage. Feeling nothing makes me feel like some barren slug or something. If anyone has any HELP in this subject, I'd appreciate it.