| 39 year old woman and Never Had an Orgasm!
I am 39 years old and have never had an orgasm. I've masturbated since I was a teen, had partners give me oral stimulation, and vaginal penetration with no results . When I masturbate I become aroused, my vaginal walls tightens and then there is a 1/2 second feeling of a higher pleasure (very disappointing. It lasts like a blink of an eye) Then all of this feeling (arousal, tension in vagina ) subsides and I am left extremely unfulfilled. I notice that there are internal contractions (maybe 3 contractions) but they do not feel like anything, i.e. zero pleasure. I am so so frustrated. My partner is having multiple intense orgasms lasting minutes from rubbing her cervix (I am gay). My cervix is no where to be found. My gynecologist told me that my uterus is difficult to find. Please offer me advice and direct me to someone that could help. I live in NYC
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