My boyfriend works long hours Mon-Thurs. I work Fri, Sat, Sun. He is too tired for sex on the days he works most of the time. We used to be all over each other. We have been together less than two years! I told him I want him to just shove his hand down my pants. He says he doesn't think about it. I said thats the problem! I always initiate sex. I am tired of it. We have talked about it.
I do a lot of oral on him as well. I do dress up sexy some times (surprise him). He is just tired and usually isn't interested unless I am dressed up or perform oral. Any suggestions? Definitely not like he used to be.
What do you do about wanting sex more than your partner?
Don't initiate anything - just when you're in your room, getting ready for bed or whatever, undress in front of him. Slowly like you're teasing him but act like you're not really paying any attention to what you're doing, see if that works.