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Old 02-20-2012, 12:33 PM   #1
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Anal Sex Advice

Recently I have been thinking a lot about potentially having anal sex with my boyfriend. He has asked me about it once or twice, but NEVER have I felt pressured into it in any way, shape, or form - I just wanted to state that right off the bat. (:

I'm not worried about him pressuring me, and I know that if we start and it's painful, he'll stop (He did the same thing when we had sex for the first time - when it was painful he noticed right away and stopped. At least half of him enjoying sex etc. is seeing me enjoy it, he's said, so when it's painful it isn't fun for him at all.) We have been sexually active for a while now and I do really trust him. I've never done it before and neither has he. I'm looking for any sort of advice that anyone can give me about this.

I know that a lot of lubricant is required, a condom is a good idea and a lot of stimulation... and it's a good idea to work yourself up to it. We have been doing that, with him just using his fingers at the moment.

Anything we should be aware of, careful of, look out for? I know that it can hurt, a lot, if not done properly, which I am slightly worried about - that and the possibility of a bowel movement, which I have been warned about on the internet, although I'm not sure how common that actually is considering I only know one girl IRL that has happened to.

Thanks in advance.

Last edited by Wheeze; 02-20-2012 at 12:36 PM.

 
Old 02-21-2012, 10:48 AM   #2
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Re: Anal Sex Advice

I've had it twice, it doesn't do anything for me. I wouldn't recommend you do it regularly, maybe once for the experience.

 
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