Re: hymenectomy = nothing?
Hi DannyAvid! I assume when you say 'during sex' you mean 'during intercourse'.
Most women don't orgasm from intercourse alone, since most of the nerves (the important ones) are connected to the clitoris, not the vagina. A lot of women just feel pressure, or movement, during intercourse, and while this should feel really good and all, it's most often not enough to bring on orgasm.
The hymen is just a barrier to protect the vagina with very few nerve endings on its own, and once it's gone (naturally or by hymenectomy) it really shouldn't factor into anything. So unless they cut away WAY more than they should have and damaged her surrounding tissue (not likely), it probably isn't the cause of any lack of sensation down there.
My question, is she getting the right stimulation where she needs it, or are you guys counting on intercourse to do the trick? Because that only works in less that 20% of women.