So, I've decided to take advantage of the women's sexual health board. I've been searching for an answer on this, but I'm completely lost. Doctors refuse to do anything for me at this point.
I have pain during and after sex on most occasions. While I was on contraception, it was utterly horrific and sometimes I cried. I have been having sexual intercourse with my boyfriend for almost two years now. We have used various amounts and types of lubes to try solving this issue to no avail. Certain positions may be okay one day, but a really bad idea another day. For the longest time, he had to stick to sexual activities outside of penetration.
The flesh around the opening, especially the area just below the vagina, and inside of my vagina get really raw and sore. We used to think our problems was his size and the fact I was a virgin, but after this long, I have my very serious doubts. I have never really fully enjoyed sex. I want to. I feel like we've done what we can on our own whims.
- What should I do?
- What should I look for?
- How do I convince doctors to try harder at finding the problem?
Vaginal pain during & after. 
