Re: Husband Low libido depressing me
Hi, from a guys point of view, it's horrible if he really has sex only twice a month, does not touch you and masterbates himself everytime to enjoy it.
One side of me tells me that he does not have interest for you, possibly has something against you and either defaulted to solo masturbation (most likely) or (God forbid) somebody else. The other possibility is that something is really wrong with him healthwise... but then why wouldn't he want to get help?
Now, it can get tricky when you confront him. Guys' sex drive is strongly driven by their self ego. So if you make him feel like crap, he will loose any little that he did have. So when you talk to him, tell him how buff/sexy/manly he looks and how he drives you nuts, to a point where you really want him to touch you every day. Unless he is really hiding something, I'd imagine this should be enough to open him up to you.
Last edited by Manly; 06-18-2013 at 12:50 PM.