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Old 06-22-2013, 12:31 PM   #1
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I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect me during sex

I recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I really don't know if this is how it works or is he being disrespectful during sex.
he kept changing my position by just grabbing my body parts without even asking me to move or something, I felt like he's too busy to mind me! It happened several times, and at some point he even grabbed my hair which was hurting me. he did let go when i told him to.
and now I feel so disappointed and used.
am I being too critical or this is just wrong?

 
Old 06-22-2013, 05:11 PM   #2
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Re: I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect me during sex

You need to be specific about what you like or don't like and communicate this to him. I don't think it is about disrespect, he is just doing his thing in the absence of direction from you. You are allowed to talk or stop to regroup during sex, get your input happening. Good luck, Sera

 
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Old 06-22-2013, 11:49 PM   #3
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Re: I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect me during sex

It's very normal. It's because he does not have any experience and is learning himself, trying new positions. It also can be because he is not feeling comfortable and is trying to find good positions. Just imagine yourself driving a car for the first time; how smooth was it? It took me about a month until I've started to get a feel of it.

 
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Re: I feel like my boyfriend doesn't respect me during sex

thank you so much for your answers, it really took a load off my mind.

 
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