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Originally posted by GLS:
I was told that a girl who is over weight has a looser vagina compared to someone who is slim even when both are still virgins. |
Can you think of
any way this could possibly occur? I mean, do you imagine you have
fat in your vagina? Of course not! So the suggestion is just what you always thought it was - an idle "folk fairy-tale" for
truly idle minds.
Mind you, if you are a bit fat, your vagina is a bit deeper in - may be just that little more difficult to get into, but you would surely understand that.
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| Does being tight matter to a man? What is meant by being tight? |
Well, I think it means what you think it does - how effectively the vagina can
grip the penis. It is somewhat unusual for a virgin
not to have a good grip, and has nothing to do with fat. The "grip" is a product of the muscles and the "soft tissues" - ligaments and such. They get stretched when you have a baby (the normal way) - but
most of the time, the woman can correct for that by exercising the muscles - if she
wants to - and she certainly should.
Now, does it matter to a man? Well, of
course it does, it's an important part of having sex!
However, what is even
more important, is that it matters to
you as a woman - it
matters that you are an active participant in sex, and it affects how
you enjoy it.
And by the way, if you
know you are substantially overweight, get motivated! The longer you leave it, the harder it gets. You
must learn to get
exercise,
regular and serious exercise, low-impact exercise (such as bicycle riding and swimming) no matter what, in order to get and
stay fit, as
well as eating less. You can
always lose weight by combining these two, though I must be totally honest - you
will be hungry - there is presently no way of avoiding that, losing weight primarily means learning to live with being hungry - that is the
central, crucial and unavoidable point of the matter.
What is particularly important now is that you are concerned about sexual "performance" even if your particular question is easily dismissed. I am sure no-one will challenge me here in saying that the
fitter you are in general, the more you will enjoy and desire sex.
And while you are doing the general exercising, by all means, do also have a feel inside your vagina - just one finger - and see how good your "grip" is. Teach yourself to exercise this as well as all the other exercises - it is an essential life skill.
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