I find it so sad that some people fall into to ruts with their sex life and then blame it on being together for so long or such. I have been married to my hubby for almost 8 years and never once have I found sex boring,routine,or lack luster with him.
The first three years we were rarely apart,except of course during the day whilehe was at work and I was school. The past five though we have spent times apart thanks to the base we are stationed at now. He has to go tdy quite often. We can spend anywhere from a week to three months apart. The interesting thing is when we do get back together I get more sex than normal but it is still the same wonderful sex we have been having from the get go.
You can try your idea but chances are it wont change things. You see chances are the waiting isnt going to change what is going on. You have to sit your bf down and talk to him. See what is goingon with him and your relationship. I am not saying anything is wrong just saying it might be more constructive to talk than to stop having sex. Find out if he has an fantsaies and act them out. Or change where you have sex. In other words see if spicing things up will change how you are feeling.
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Married 3/25/95
DS 13 yr
DS 8 yr (3+ yrs ttc)
TTC #3 since 01/02
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