Girls...here is a question for you. - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

gem2000 · 10-19-2002, 11:39 AM

Ok I am a single, mid-twenties student. Last night I went to a show with some friends. It was a dance-strip act and the guys are a pretty well known group. I was invited to a private show after the thing, i.e. back to one of the guys hotel rooms. I wanted to so badly but I said no. I am not a virgin, not opposed to sex in any way between mature adults, but I just decided to behave myself and go home. Now it is the A.M. and I am kicking myself. This guy was a god. He has a calender for crying out loud!!!! I was just interested in seeing how many girls would have done the same thing?

girlfrom3doorsdown · 10-19-2002, 12:18 PM

If I were in your position I would have done the same exact thing as you (I am a chicken) and yes I would have kicked myself in the *** for it the next day!!

skaryann · 10-19-2002, 03:29 PM

if i wanted to , i probably would have gone with him, but not without letting someone know where i was gonna be and with whom.........i guess it would have depended on what your expectations would have been for the evening........but i would NEVER regret someone i didnt sleep with, since your not a virgin you probably know youll have alot more regrets about who you DID sleep with

MaryJane11001 · 10-31-2002, 01:45 PM

Honey, stay away from guys like that!!!! Do you know how many people he could have been with in the last month?

Dramaqueen · 10-31-2002, 02:25 PM

Yeah exactly he could of been with a hell of alot of other girls and have some awful std. Be glad you didnt. Sure he was hot, but theres plenty more hot guys around!