Ugly Vagina?? - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

RioSwimmer · 01-15-2003, 08:37 AM

Okay, heres the deal...My vagina looks like any other normal one, but for some reason my boyfriend doesnt get turned on by looking at it. He told me it looks kinda gross. Well yeah if you really think about it they are purdy nasty looking, but so are guys dicks!
Dont get me wrong, he does love to please me, by oral, fingering or sex, and he does seem to get very horny while doing these things to me. But i guess i feel kind of weird because he said it doesnt make him horny by looking at it because it looks so weird.
Are any other guys like this?? Do guys get horny if you gals flash your vagina at them????

kristen_channel · 01-15-2003, 09:15 AM

My gosh... how old is he? That's a rather immature statement. And why would you say that to your girlfriend? Can you imagine if we made comments like that about our mens' penises? They'd be INCREDIBLY insecure!

If vaginas are so "gross", why would he want to put his precious penis in there (and don't try to tell me he doesn't want to)?

It's not a big deal that he doesn't get horny just looking at your vagina... I mean, I don't get horny just looking at my husband's penis. It's the whole "it's gross looking" thing that got me. But, he will get over it! I wouldn't worry too much about it. And tell him to spare your feelings and keep thoughts like that to himself!

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2bad4u · 01-15-2003, 09:54 AM

the vagina is a beautiful and wondeful thing, and i jump at the chance to initmately explore and worship it every chance i get. you boyfriend is messed.

Blastoff9600 · 01-15-2003, 12:00 PM

LOL I have to agree with 2bad4u.
Even being female I like the look of the vulva(the vagina is inside the body). So I will assume your bf is actually refferring to your vuvla. I have alway been amazed at how much the vuvla resembles flowers. Yes the look like flowers. Go out in nature or look in nature book and then look at pictures of vulvas. Especially orchids and roses.
My dh wholeheartedly admits that just looking will turn him on. Of course I also get turned on seeing his penis. I guess it is the artist in me because I dont see either body part as being ugly.

maryett · 01-15-2003, 01:44 PM

How immature and insensitive. Maybe you should get another boyfriend, especially if he ends up making you feel bad about how God made you.