Oral Sex... - Sexual Health - Women Message Board

allstateQB · 01-16-2003, 11:59 AM

My girlfiend and I have been dating for almost a year now, and things are becoming more and more physical. My girlfriend has preformed oral sex on me numerous times. However, she will not let me go down on her. Recently she has told me that she is ready for me to go down on her. Would some of you be so kind as to tell me what women like, and how to do it. I want to make sure she has an orgasm, and I want this to be an exprience she will never forget.

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Thisby · 01-16-2003, 03:24 PM

Right now your girlfriend is in the enviable position of being able to train you to do it exactly the way she likes it. So before I go giving you any pointers, remember that every woman is different and you should be asking HER what she likes (or since she doesn't know yet, if she's liking what you're doing). Ask her to give you feedback, comments, applause, whatever, and not to be afraid to tell you if she doesn't like something. Make sure she is totally comfortable with everything.

As for general pointers: start slowly and gently (you can work up to a more vigorous action is she's responding well) exploring is good but focus on the clit (that is the most important part) and don't be afraid to use your hands/fingers if the position allows.

Good luck and have fun.

SkipperK · 01-16-2003, 04:14 PM

Use your tounge on the clit and around it a bit to tease it a bit. Also try using you fingers inside her focusing on the top part of her vaginal wall closer to her belly button area on the inside there. Use the "come here" finger movement on the flesh part in there as your tounge is moving around her clit. Just try various things down there and see what makes her respond more. Don't focus on one spot for too long, go with what she enjoys but move around as soon as you get less responce. Happy Oral to you!

Apollo · 01-16-2003, 08:30 PM

Just a small tip from a guy to a guy. Don't over stimulate her, she may have a very sensitive clit, and if she says it hurts, then stay off of it, and massage around the area, also you may overstimulate her to much, and she may hurt a bit too, just some warnings, but yes, I have never actually tried to be down there, and try the come here motion, it worked better when I had jsut my hand, but what ever floats your boat, boats your float, works.

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Merrida · 01-17-2003, 11:04 AM

Agreed, all women are different, but some general guides are go SOFT, use a SLOW hand and tongue, don't get too aggressive or apply too firm a pressure, and do not focus ON the clit directly, work your way AROUND the area. Some men feel the need to devote 100% attention to the clit thinking it's our magic button and from it all pleasure will be derived. Nadda, nope, sorry -- don't work that way. It's more of an "over all" kind of thing. It's easy to over-do it.

WATCH HER BODY LANGUAGE.

She may feel intimidated to tell you things like, "OUCH" or "it hurts" so watch -- if she flinches or pulls away, tune in and pay attention and back off.