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Old 02-20-2003, 09:33 AM   #1
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Unhappy I get too wet with sex...help!

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I feel awkward saying this but i need help bad so here goes. Everytime my fiance (husband to be) have sex I get way too wet, to the point where I don't feel anything anymore. I've asked him so many times if he feels me when I am so wet, and he seems honest when he tells me yes. He said he loves me wet.....geez thats fine for him, but I dont feel anything. He is average size, and I would consider myself to be fairly snug. Is there something to use to make me more dry? Or something to make me more tighter?

 
Old 02-20-2003, 03:29 PM   #2
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This is a really simple solution, but why dont you dry off quickly when you and your partner switch positions. Keep a tissue on hand. Or maybe cut back on forplay time so you are dripping wet before you even start.

 
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Old 02-20-2003, 04:19 PM   #3
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CEILING FAN BABY!!!!!!!!!!!

Worked 4 me!!

 
Old 02-20-2003, 04:28 PM   #4
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A guy's perspective here. "Too wet"? Pulease. It's like being "Too hard". No such thing. My guess is that when you feel that you are too wet, He probably is extremely aroused. It is very, very flattering to have a Woman respond that way. I was with a Woman for a while who created a wet spot before we ever reaaly even got started, What a turn-on!

 
Old 02-21-2003, 06:39 AM   #5
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Interesting glider guy, but not a solution and tissues do not dry up the inside of the vagina, ONLY the outside. I heard that alum would help it...off to the store...

 
Old 02-21-2003, 07:59 AM   #6
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You might give this one a try. My wife has no problem getting wet, just the right amount. However, for some odd reason, she gets very dry if she drinks Lowenbrau beer. Don't ask me why. No other brand of beer has ever done this to her. But it happened everytime she had Lowenbrau.

 
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It is true only the outermost part of your vagina will get dry if you use a tissue, but i remember reading that most of the sensation that is felt during sex for women occurs in the outermost one-third of the vagina.

 
Old 02-21-2003, 09:06 AM   #8
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Ok jersey girl, so you want me to stick the tissue 1/3 part of the way up? That may cause bacteria to get in there...i think i'll stick with the alum solution. thanks anyway.

 
Old 02-21-2003, 09:33 AM   #9
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Like I said, consider going on the birth control pill -- very effective at drying up natural lubrication!

 
Old 02-21-2003, 01:49 PM   #10
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Hi...thanks for your reply. I can't take birth control pills because I've tried many different kinds and they all give me horrendous side effects. My doctor took me off of them..

 
Old 02-21-2003, 09:46 PM   #11
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hahahah spud I never instructed you to stick a tissue up in youself...i was just stating the fact that the surface is more sensitive than the inside portion of the vagina itself.

Hey maybe I am the weird one, but I would feel better wiping myself with a tissue (which is very much like toilet paper that myself and most of us use everyday!) instead of applying a chemical compound that is used for inducing vomiting, pickling, forming gelatin, and cutting paper.

 
Old 02-22-2003, 08:17 AM   #12
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Hey Jersey girl, wrong alum honey...check out the correct one....your making this thread into some spat..I am not in here for that...different strokes for different folks...I wont reply to anymore of your replies here..

 
Old 02-22-2003, 10:39 AM   #13
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Potato, I can't imagine a woman wanting to be dry, I cannot comprehend this one!! I feel way much better and can be more excited and the feeling is unbelievale when I am really wet. When you are dry you are more susceptible to infections and irritation. Badgirl

 
Old 02-22-2003, 02:15 PM   #14
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I have a feeling that you'll find being less wet will not only make you feel him better -- it'll make you chafe, and make you uncomfortable.

The wet is there for a reason -- it's to protect you from being damaged by the friction he can cause. Seek another solution -- the one you're looking into is a lot like setting your car on fire to avoid getting in an accident.

 
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I had a girlfriend who wanted to tighten her vaginal muscles and talked to her doctor. He recommended Kugeling excercises. She explained to me that she would tighten the same muscle that shuts off the urine flow 10-15 times about 4 or 5 times a day. Since I'm male, I can't quite understand it but I do know that she got a lot tighter especially when she had her orgasm. It was like a crushing force on my penis. Maybe some of the women here can explain it better.


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