my friend has been with this loser for a yr now and we know he has cheated once. my friend has herpes and has for yrs but about 1 month ago she called me and said she had symtoms of clymidia but had test and they said it was all clear! then a few days ago her bf has a red splotch on his penis and got it checked out. well he called my friend yesterday and split up with ehr saying she gave this to him!! she has NEVER cheated on him. but now i want to know how she could have had symptoms but tested neg but then he gets tested and its pos....one would assume he has cheated on her but he is acting really angry towards her that she gave it to him, i know she didnt!! anyone tell me more about this infectiona and other things would be great!!
You are not real clear in your explanation. I think you are saying that she had herpes...and is this now what the guy has and is his stated reason for breaking up with her?
Also, she THOUGHT she had chlamydia and the test was negative? Did he have signs or a diagnosis of chlamydia?
What did she test negative for?
Sometimes men in a relationship they are not happy with and where they KNOW that they cheated will blame their partner falsely in order to get out of the relationship. It is just a continuation of their dominance or of their desire to hurt.
I thought she said that her friend has symptoms of chlamydia, but she tested negative. Her boyfriend, however, tested positive for it and blames her. The friend also has herpes, but that's an unrelated detail.
lol gunther she DIDNT lie about taking the test and would have no reason to lie about taking it, she is my best friend and didnt even have to tell me about this situation at all as i never wouldve known anyways! anyways....sorry for not being clearer before. she got herpes 10 yrs ago they assumed the red mark on his penis was that but it turned out to be clamydia! she tested neg 3 weeks ago as she was experiencing probs then with a discharge. she didnt know what she coudlve had but she got a pap anyways and assumed from symtoms it could be clymidia. then as i said her bf got the red mark 2 weeks after she went and got tested, thinking it would come back as herpes as my friend couldve given it to him( he is fully aware she had this when they met). but as i said it turned out to be clamydia.he dumped her blaming her. but like ive said he has cheated on her before and she has never. chances are was he cheating again, or has it possibly laid dormant for the past yr?(doubt that) she has only been with him for a yr so i doubt it was from before he met her(she was actually married and met this guy shortly after she separated). im thinking he has cheated and given it to her and is blaming her so he doesnt look like an idiot but my question here is are there other ways to catch it? can it lay dormant for a long time?
Linear Mode
