Unprotected sex once....STD???? - Sexually Transmitted Diseases Message Board

alwysasweetie21 · 01-04-2005, 10:34 PM

Ok...I have a friend, who had sex with this guy one night....They had sex twice in one night, and the first time a condom was worn, but the second time it was unprotected.
She is really worried that she could have an STD...since she doesn't know if he is disease free or not....is it possible to get an STD from just one time with a person???......any comments and knowledge on this would be completely appreciated.

wild_thang_386 · 01-05-2005, 01:28 AM

all u need is one nite w someone, to catch an STD. she should talk to the guy if possible, look out for any signs or differences on her body, and should get check if she really believes she might of caught something. better to be safe than sorry.

Mecpcpj · 01-05-2005, 03:08 PM

One time and one instance of contact is all that's necessary to contract and STD. If any fluid was passed between the two then there's a definite chance of an STD if one of the people has one.

beaker24 · 01-10-2005, 06:20 PM

You don't even need fluid to pass between the two people. HPV and herpes are both passed on by skin to skin contact.

The number of times you have unprotected sex, and the number of people you have it with, is going to up the odds of getting an STD, but a woman can get pregnant from "just one time" and anyone get an STD from just one sexual encounter.

Jenteal · 01-10-2005, 06:44 PM

By all means get a test done. They can do it at the same time the pap smear is done. My best friend got HPV from her husband who had been sleeping with this one girl. The girl he had been cheating with already had a hysterectomy from her HPV getting so bad. She ied and said it was her appendex (sp) He had been cheating on his wife for a year with this girl when she found out and left him. She went to the Dr. after getting the quickest appintment and found out that she had HPV in stage 3.She has been in the hospital twice for her HPV. They next time she has to be hospitalized they said she will most probably have do a hysterectomy on her. She can never have anymore childern. Men are carries and 90% of the time are never effected by HPV. They just pass it on to women. Very few men are effected by it. When they are it is not as serious as it is for women.
You may not have it but better safe than sorry. My best friend was a virgin when she married her husband and had only been with him her entire life. Sad I know but now she is married to another who knew about her HPV and still married her. She did not even sleep with him until a week after they were married just incase he changed his mind and wanted out. She did not want to be responsible for ruining his life. They are happy as can be now. Just thought I'd type that too incase anyone out there has it. Life can still be good with HPV.

Jenteal