Advice Please - Sexually Transmitted Diseases Message Board

magiclola · 05-02-2005, 11:05 PM

A few months ago my boyfriend went to Planned Parenthood with a bump he discovered on his penis. He was told it was genital warts, he got tested, and was cleared for everything else. I chose not to go in to get tested for a number reason. I know that I should, but my reasons are very valid.

HOWEVER, twice since then I've had strange, painful bumps around my vagina. I assumed they were ingrown hair, did some research and thought they might be herpes, but because of his negative test and the fact that my bumps didn't match the information I found totally, I didn't get tested. They haven't reappeared for two months or so, and I know I know I KNOW I am being slightly irresponsible in not getting tested, but again, my reasons are extremely valid.

My worries have been totally sated since his negative test, but I recently read on a non-reputable source that herpes tests in men are very inaccurate. I trust the advice giving on HealthBoards: Is this true? That's the second test he's had in a year and both were negative, and he has been my only sexual partner.

tattoogirl · 05-03-2005, 05:13 AM

Usually people are tested for Herpes by ways of an open sore, which a doctor would swab and test for herpes. I would, if you have another outbreak of these "bumps" go get tested. It is never safe to assume that you are either fine or not fine by relying on your boyfriends words or tests. Do you see a gynocologist? If so, inquire about your sitution. If not, you must see one if you are sexually active. Being proactive in your sexually health is EXTREMELY important since there are so many STD'S and other halth factors to consider. Hope this helps.
Bella