please help... so scared - Sexually Transmitted Diseases Message Board

someguy4 · 01-04-2006, 02:15 PM

Hi im 17 and I kissed a girl, licked her breasts and she grabbed my penis really quickly.This happened about 2 -2 1/2 years ago and I didnt realy know the girl she was just a friend of one of my friends who's a girl. I am starting to become concerned and am freaking out because every now and then I get these very small bumps at the base of my penis where my pubic hair seems to grow. I completely regret the incident and it eats away at me for ever doing it but I was young and thought it was highly unlikely to get something from anything than actually having sex. Ive never had sex and ive only kissed two other girls, and I actually knew and liked both of them. Most of the time I only have one of these bumps at a time but I did have two once. I have just thought it was a pimple in the past and havent thought much about it because I'm too scared to think of what it could be. It also hurts sometimes when I urinate, but not all the time and when it hurts my urine is pretty yellow. I'm too ashamed to tell my parents or friends about this and I dont know what to do. please help

ChrissyBU · 01-05-2006, 10:31 PM

ok dude, first... chill out... ok now.. lets begin...

An STD is a sexually transmitted disease so that means you get them from having sex and you have not.

Second, not all bumps down there are STD's. They are a normal function of the skin. It could very well be an ingrown hair or pimple, that is totally normal.

Thirdly, you cannot get anything from what you explained to me and 2 and 1/2 years is way past the time that you would have had something develop something.

Lastly, chill out dude. Sex and messing around is supposed to be fun and adventurous. It is ok to kiss girls and touch them, that is what you are supposed to do. Just try to keep sex with one partner or someone that you are in a relationship with and make sure to always wear a condom, no matter what. It sounds to me like you are a normal young man, enjoying your sexual life and the girls in it. Don't worry about things that are not there. Educate yourself about STD's and the symptoms so you will know if any ever arise. It's all good in the hood homie, have fun and play safe.

CBU