emilyviolet

I plan to make a gyno appointment for next week. but that is still few days ago, and I am very worried and paranoid, and would like to know what other people may think:

I'm 22, lost my virginity a month ago. using condoms. one time he rubbed against without a condom though. I've a dryness problem, and would tense up initially during sex. so when he first put it in it used to hurt and bleed, but then I got lube and took control being on top, so the last time we had sex, I did not have any pain or bleeding.

but the next day I had little soreness. 2 days later I got my period. and worse symptoms began on nov 18th:
- reddish skin around vaginal opening, almost as if there may be a cut.
- sometimes burning pain when urinating and direct touch when wiping.
- looked like my labia minora is a little bit swollen.
- 4-5 bumps. kind big. red/pinkish. they have a pinpoint on them now. probably from all the friction/menstrual blood irritation. they are NOT on my vagina or labia lips, and they are NOT on my anus. they are probably 3-4 inches from my anus. they do not itch. they are NOT clustered together. all bumps are separated from each other.
- no discharge. no odor. no itching.
- I feel like I have a constipation issue. but I'm not sure if this is related to the situation or not.

I was thinking, the those few times we had sex and I bled, maybe i didn't give enough time for myself to heal. and maybe the spermacide on his condoms irritated my vaginal opening even more, and all the friction involved? and now Ive had my period for 7 days, and decided not to use a tampon, so the pads/blood can be irritating it even more? also, I shave around that area. so maybe those bumps are irritated follicles from shaving/period blood/etc etc? also, I have some excess fat in thigh area, and I can see how friction/tight jeans can be irritating those bumps even more.

it's been 9 days since we last had sex, 11 days since he rubbed against me without a condom, and today is day 7 of my period.

my boyfriend said he's been tested and has no STDs. and I trust him, but I am paranoid, and I hate that I have to wait until next week.

so, would someone think I have an STD or yeast infection somehow.... or would someone go with my vagina not fully healing when I lost my virginity/spermacide irritation/dryness problem making a messy situation?