Help How Do I Tell Bf I Have Chlyamadia?? - Sexually Transmitted Diseases Message Board

sarah1686 · 06-16-2008, 07:59 AM

I have just been diagnosed with chlyamadia and I dont know how to tell me boyfriend about it and that he needs to get tested, we have been together for 11 months but i am scarred of his reaction?? is there any way/service that can call him up anonomously and tell him to get tested?? even if i tell him that i or him could of had the disease b4 we met i know he will still fly off the handle and it means we cant have sex till he is treated how do i explain that to him?? PLEASE HELP ME I LOVE HIM AND DON'T WANNA LOOSE HIM

janewhite1 · 06-16-2008, 10:08 AM

You are just going to have to tell him, I'm afraid. If you can't say it, you could write him a note, in which you explain that you don't know when you were infected, etc.

It'll be tough, but if he's a man worth keeping, you'll get through it. At least it's something treatable, right?