Re: Trichomoniasis - Is this possible?
From American standards, it is completely irresponsible to give ANY diagnosis without an examination!!! Primarily because of lawsuits! (maybe not primarily bc of lawsuits, but doctors always try to avoid malpractice lawsuits and wrong diagnosis sounds like malpractice!). So you do have to take in to account that we're talking about a different country with different etiquettes and procedures. As far as you know, Trich is 'the' common STD of the area, so assuming Trich may be norm???
Hopefully someone else can chime in with more trich knowledge. Because I don't know much about it. I actually just recently learned about it because I had some 'weird' symptoms for the first time in my life and was freaking out!!! It turned out to be BV (gardenerella (sp) bacteria- stilll, it's ewww to me!). In between waiting for my results, I did all this research and it was between either BV or an STD (trich- but I knew it wasn't as STD). Turned out to officially be BV which the doctor said can happen if you've been sexually INactive for a while (disruption of pH levels). Taking Probiotics daily NOW!!!!
Regardless if it's Trich (or BV- I think it's BV), don't be mad at anyone. No one has been unfaithful. And if it is Trich, it's something you unknowingly carried from your past. If you haven't gotten STD testing in between past wife an current wife, it's a great time to do so REGARDLESS!!!! There are a few STDs that are 'silent' for both male and female. So even if you haven't noticed anything out of the ordinary, it doesn't hurt to just get a full STD test and know you are starting fresh! Same for her. Not sure what MNL STD testing is like. But it wouldn't hurt to just get tested for everything. Especially since no one has anything to hide. And this will eliminate any 'false accusations'. (PS, is she accusing you? Just asking because she may not be accusing you, just simply asking you. Nothing wrong with asking about your past since she doesn't have one).
I can't help you with your Trich questions. And I really hope someone can so you can feel more at ease. But I just want to tell you not to be upset at anyone. In theory, you should have gotten tested for STDs before/ after relationships or anytime you're sexually active and not using protection. So you should also be mad at yourself for not knowing your current status. Everyone has to be responsible for their own bodies. And don't forget, just cause you're a guy and she was a virgin, you have to be responsible for your own body! So asking her for a full STD test is not unreasonable.
Again, hope you get better answers!!!