Originally Posted by decaturguy2017
I have one (I think) in the opening to my rectum.
My wife and I do have oral sex now and then.. I more on her than she on me. She has warts on her butt ... maybe one starting on her vagina lips .. I am just wondering through the series of events ... this is quite scary ...
I just am asking .. how is this possible if it is std warts?
The only way you would have a genital wart near your rectum is if you engaged in receptive anal sex. That does not sound like that is the case. My guess is whatever you have is not genital warts.
Regarding your wife, if these are truly genital warts that she has, it is possible that she's had them and they have laid dormant after contracting them from another sexual partner. However, it is unlikely that they would lay dormant for years, so if you two have been together for an extended period, then these are not genital warts.
My best suggestion is just to go get checked out. It really doesn't matter how or why something happens; if there is an issue, you just need to find that out, get treated, and live healthy after that.